For Ladies :10 Ways To Reject A Guy’s Proposal Nicely

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Rejecting the proposal of someone (a guy) is not really an easy thing for some girls as some feels outright rejection may ruin the friendship between them.

However,if you’re not into someone you should be bold enough to tell him but rather in a nice way that the guy won’t feel ashamed or even feels he’s not good enough or better still rejected.

Here are 10 nice ways that you can reject a guy’s proposal without him feeling bad or have the feeling that he’s been rejected


01.It’s not you, it’s me



“Hey, (guy’s name) the problem is not you. It’s me. I feel like I am really in a tight spot right now and I do not want to be in a relationship because I am not yet ready. Again, the problem is not you, it’s me.”


02:School matters, study first


“Hi (guy’s name) I am sorry to put it like this right now, but school matters to me and I would really love it if we can still be friends. I am just too busy with my studies right now and I don’t want to add more pressure to you and to myself. I just don’t want you to think that I reject you as a person – I just want to focus on studies right now.”


03:Similar yet different


“(guy’s name) we have very different personalities but I really think that it would be great if we can still share our similar passion for the art, even if we can’t be a couple. I really liked that we both love Van Gogh, and that’s a fact – I really do not want to reject your friendship and our shared passions too J”


04:Need more time for myself


“Hi (guy’s name), I am really thankful for all your nice words and your compliments, but I really need more time to figure out myself first. I am not sure if I want to be in a relationship right now, I am sure you understand, right?”


05:Not the girl for you


“I appreciate your attention – I really do. But (guy’s name) I feel like I am not really the right girl for you. I have my own difficult times to deal with right now, and I feel like I am not in a position to put that burden on someone else.”


06:Plenty of fish in the sea


“(guy’s name) you are a smart, intelligent and caring guy – and I love all those traits about you. But I want to live my own life right now, and I do not want to have a relationship just yet. There are plenty of fish in the sea for a guy with your qualities – I do not want you to think I am rejecting you completely, I just don’t think we are a good match


07:Me and my broken self


“(Guy’s name) I know that this might come off as an excuse, but I just recently got out of a very toxic relationship. To be honest with you, I just want to repair myself right now – and having another romantic relationship will not help. However, your friendship is something that I really enjoy – I hope we can still stay friends


08:To be honest


“(Guy’s name) to be honest with you, it has been fun hanging out as friends. However, I really don’t feel a romantic connection between us, and I’d really appreciate it if we can still keep our friendship”


09:Dating someone else


“Hi (guy’s name) I don’t want it to appear like I was leading you on, but I am currently dating someone else right now. I really feel that our friendship was great though – and it felt really nice hanging out with you. I hope you don’t mind if we can still keep our friendship, I’d like that.”


10:I am a time bomb


“You know what (Guy’s name), I am just a ticking time bomb, waiting to explode. And you really don’t want to be around when that happens. If you cant accept me this way, and be patient with me, I’d like us to stay friends.”

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